ECOE-TALK; PERFECT SPELL TO COMMAND RESPECT (1).

Have you ever thought of walking, standing, on a podium or even doing the daily conversation thing, and you seeing people longing to see or hear more from you, even when you are done?.

Have you taught of people you don’t even know becoming expectant just from seeing you just from afar? And, why some people get into a gathering and steal the public attention?

Well you might have in one time thought about any of this, and even more related things, to even a height of you getting jealous of your friend who gets good attention when you both enter into a gathering, making you look irrelevant.

The big questions are ‘what do they do to command such respect’, and ‘why don’t I command this authority’

Hmmmmm… you do not need to go too far, I will hint on this part of the series, the respect you get at first sight.

Note: This is not for a particular gender, it’s for all…

First of all do you know RESPECT is an ATTITUDE, therefore for you to earn respect it needs to be in you (i.e. if you do not respect yourself you aren’t getting respect, brother and sister.)

Now that the attitude is established it now comes to how this attitude is exhibited.

How do you dress? What is your posture like?, This two things may sound funny and short, yet they go a long way to tell the  magnitude of respect you get on an on-looker at first sight.

We all know of “dress the way you want to be addressed” Yea; that saying is correct in terms of communication, but do you know someone dressed as a prostitute could get respect from her fellow folks, or rather like minded people, yet she might be booed by disciplined people, therefore I ask you “Whom do you want to respect you? What kind of respect do you want? and where do you want to get your respect?

Therefore the attitude you show in terms of your dressing means a lot, that is the first thing is to do, like I said earlier is to dress to your very taste, before going out… Then in public when you feel intimidated by other people carriage, then put the second attitude (posture).

Its all about you carrying yourself, some call it packaging but I prefer it to be called carriage.

There is more to be continued next week on this series, stay on for your firs grab on info...